10 secrets of successful Marriage !!

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Once I read a post about a successful Marriage.. I noticed There is a common problem in our society and that is marriage problem.. Probably there’s a lot of reasons why marriages are failed but trust me it is in your hand totally I mean if spouse wants to keep her / him relation he / she will definitely do it. Although it is a bit challenging for one who is compromising but with the flow of time everything will be okay. Here are some secrets which I want to share with you also.. If you guys agree by this.

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse’s weakness you can’t get the best out of his strength.


Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone’s past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.


Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.


Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don’t compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.


Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance 

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness 

Third party influence 

Stinginess

Stubbornness 

Lack of love 

Rudeness

Laziness 

Disrespect 

Cheating 

Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.


Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 


Secret 7

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience


Secret 8

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future.  Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.


Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract. It is  permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.


Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don’t deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

Book promo : Every good deed

Author : River Ames

Genre : Sweet Contemporary Romance

About book ;

When Linc met Erin in college, she was already engaged to his best friend. From the moment he first laid eyes on her, a war commenced within him. On one side, the need to resist his attraction to her, and on the other to have her for his own.

Erin Clay, widowed, is raising a son, who’s turning five come September. Growing up as a minister’s daughter, she received a lot of well-meaning charity—donations comprised primarily from the cast-off clothing her schoolmates no longer wanted.

When Erin was in college, she’d been swept off her feet by Merrill Clay. He was sophisticated, wealthy, and self-assured. Handsome, too, he’d introduced her to a world that seemed to have all the things her own life had lacked.

With stars in her eyes and her head in the clouds, how could she say no to his marriage proposal?

It’s been a year since Merrill’s death, much too soon for her to be developing feelings for Linc Severance, her late-husband’s business partner and former best friend.

If Erin is no longer certain that she married Merrill for the right reasons, how can she trust her growing awareness and feelings for Linc?

She’s no longer a young and naive college student. With a son to care for, it’s vital that she put away her girlish dreams of passion and love.

And, as for Linc, he’s determined to untangle his former partner’s business interests from Erin’s finances. Then, he’ll disappear from her life forever. He’s wasted too many years loving a woman never met to be his.

About author

River Ames spent the first eighteen years of her life in Southern California. Here is a partial list of some of the cities in which she lived: Pasadena, South Pasadena, Duarte, El Monte, Arcadia La Puente, Lomita, West Covina, Pacifica, Santa Monica, Palm Dale, and Hacienda Heights.

In some of those cities, she lived at six different addresses.

In the city of La Puente, River’s family lived in four different houses on the same street.

The non-glamorous reason for all the moves was habitual eviction necessitated for non-payment of rent.

It was an interesting way to grow up.

River attended twenty-six different elementary schools, two different junior high schools and four different high schools. In one elementary school, she was a student for only three days.

Perhaps, because she was so frequently identified as the “new girl,” the pattern of River being an observer instead of a participant in the interactions going on around her seemed a logical fit for her personality.

When she was thirteen, River read “Gone with the Wind.” She skipped three days of school in order to finish the book in one sitting. Disappointed in Rhett for “not giving a damn,” River wrote her own sequel—in long hand, on three-hole punch, notebook paper. The opening line? “Tomorrow dawned bright and fair.” In less than fifty pages, Scarlett had been transformed into Jane Eyre and Rhett had fallen in love with her all over again.

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Book review Crooning techies

Author : Shabana mukhtar

Book name : crooning techies”Sara’s journey begins”

Rating : 4/5

Genre : Drama, romance

Description :
Sara has just finished with her exams and awaiting results. She has done Masters of Computer Applications and aspires to be a software engineer. The results will help her find a job, a job that she badly needs. But are jobs really that easy to get?

With a determination to change the living style of her family and a burning desire to prove herself, she is ever so restless. One interview after the other, Sara’s journey will remind most the software engineers of their start.

Read on to find how Sara’s life takes turns. Does she get the job or does destiny have other plans for her?

Review by shahnila Hassan
Sara is a decent girl who belongs to the Muslim family. She is a brilliant and hardworking person. Her focus is to be successful in her life. She wants to help her parents in financial issues.

She is a software engineer and being a middle class girl she faced a lot of trouble in getting a job.

She left her city Earnakulum to find a job similarly a lot of other people came there too for job issues. Anyhow she met different people who gradually became her friend.

This is an intriguing story personally when I was reading it I was lost in the character of Sara and I’m enjoying every experiences of her.

A story is full of drama, romance, emotions

Whereas I liked the efforts of Sara in all perspective of life. This story seems a real based story I don’t know whether it was or not !!!

Something I like to share…

There was a limit to being nice and I was done being nice.

( Sara)

About the author

Shabana Mukhtar is a passionate author and blogger. She likes writing fiction, predominantly contemporary romance novels and short stories with a social message. Being bilingual, she can switch from Urdu to English, and back with equals ease.

On her blogs, she expresses her honest and blunt opinions on small problems that we face in our daily lives. She also reviews books, dramas and movies.

She is currently working on the ‘Tales of software professionals’ series which will have four novels, depicting fictional lives of software professionals, facing real problems of IT. She is also working on a ‘Happily Ever After’ series of individual romantic comedies.

Book Review : The Six Secrets Of Success

Author : Anthony Ashmore

Rating : 5/5

Genre : Self improvement

(Short book)

Product Details

  • Publication date: December 7, 2018
  • Language: English


Book Description;

The Most Powerful short book you will ever read. A Psychotherapist’s study of over 100 successful people and the philosophies they believe in.

Author Bio: 

Anthony Ashmore, born in 1984 in East Hampton, New York is an American Filmmaker, Psychotherapist and Author. Anthony acquired a Bachelors Degree from Hofstra University in Speech Communication and Film Studies. In 2012, he earned a Masters Degree in Clinical Psychotherapy. He is actively a Licensed Clinical Psychotherapist in the State of New York. He was quoted as saying: “Film, writing and
Psychotherapy are the same beast .. they explore the human condition within a microscopic context”.

My review about this Book:

¬ This is a short book which consists of six major headings.

¬ Excellent book

¬ Writer explained everything with marvelous examples.

¬ I love his writing style.

¬ The way he described the “constructive” and “destructive” form is very cherishing.

¬ The book consists of different secrets. In each secret he described the perspective of life in intriguing way

¬ Very easy language.

¬ Not only he described in examples but also with helpful chart and diagrams.

¬ “How to be in control” is the best part.

¬ According to him “Anxiety is
anticipatory.”

¬ After reading “ the secret of presentation

It reminds me my husband’s advice that a person should always be focus on his/her presentation which matters a lot.

¬ A golden words of writer :

The most successful people I’ve interviewed and studied, have a total acceptance of the present moment, as well as an understanding of temporal structure.”

Amazon book link :

https://www.amazon.com/Six-Secrets-Success-Anthony-Ashmore-ebook/dp/B07L6VK1RD/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1544659696&sr=8-1&keywords=anthony+ashmore

Book Review : Earth To Centauri



Author: Kumar L

Rating : 2.5 / 5

Genre : Sci-fi

Features & details

Product Details

  • Publication date: May 8, 2017
  • Language: English

My review about the book : 

Although the writing style is very good but I’m not very fond of space ship’s stories. The main reason is you cannot imagine the whole space ship in your mind. The characters are non visionary. Basically this is the story about the spaceship.. The present year is 2095 and Voyager 1 which is launched in 1977.Someone (aliens) send a signal to Earth. This story set in two centuries 2117 and 2095. 

The spaceship Antariksh was sent to investige the mysterious signals with professional crew members. The technology and the environment of spaceship is interestingly described.

Complications which I faced during reading is that the first half chapters are so similar which is hard to distinguish for instance they switched the centuries oftentimes. And the terms used in the story is difficult

Meanwhile some scenes are intriguing whereas some are confusing. Characters are richly described because they were very passionate about their work. 

Book Description :

A 140-year-old secret throws three planets into chaos!

Tech for the geek. Thrills for the action seeker. Mysteries for the detective. Science for the uninitiated. 

The year is 2095. Voyager 1 launched in 1977 with a golden record – someone has found it and is sending a signal back to Earth. With a newly constructed faster-than-light spaceship named Antariksh, and a crew which includes novices like Lt. Manisha, as well as seasoned professionals, including Commander Ryan, Captain Anara reaches the source of the signal at the nearest star to Earth – Proxima Centauri. 

Before she can meet with the aliens, Anara must clear obstacles on her own ship, including a recalcitrant Artificial Intelligence and inexplicable radiation, which threatens the safety of the mission. The implications of what they find on planet Proxima B will resonate far beyond this first journey, exposing Earth to dangers on an unimaginable scale. And then Captain Anara finds out its creators buried a secret aboard Voyager 1.

About the Author

Kumar is a passionate tech enthusiast and social media newbie. He loves travelling and is fluent in seven Indian languages. His engineering background and love of science fiction helps him bring technology alive in his books. Earth to Centauri is Kumar’s first book. It is easy to read and understand, and is suitable for a wide range of age groups. Earth to Centauri, as well as the second book in the series, Alien Hunt, are both based on themes of adventure, thrill and drama, with a positive outlook at what the future may hold for humanity. 

A third book in the series, Black Hole: Oblivion is currently in the research stage. 

Book Review : And so can you 

Rating : 4/ 5 

Author : Dr. Roopleen

Genre : Inspiration / Self Improvement

Book review by Shahnila Hassan.

Best best book.. So inspiring.. How can I review the struggle of real heroes.. ☺ like they do their jobs very passionately.

Well truly inspiring book and literally I don’t want to quit any chapter regardless how much time it consumed.

 This book is a collection of 17 successful doctors who shares their experiences and memorable time of their life. Their struggle, their ups and downs along with patience.

The story contains Lots of determination and struggle..  Including their success and failure.. Not just that  Its all about Hardship and faith

The best part of the book are those advices from the doctors.

I’m not the lucky one from the medical field. But after reading this I wish I could be.

I like the Story of Ashok khurrana. He inspired me a lot because of his studies and writing power.

I like the book cover and title.

Well good job @dr.Roopleen

About Book;

“And So Can You!”” is a collection of 17 inspirational success stories of doctors who struggled with challenges, braved obstacles, and made it through because they believed they had a dream to fulfil and a mission to accomplish. The stories behind the lives of these successful doctors. The journeys they embarked on. The guiding factors that drove them along the long and arduous journey. What motivated them to work hard and how they made it despite facing numerous challenges. These are the stories of dedication and perseverance. A journey of self – belief and faith, of hard work and commitment. The book unravels the secrets – why these doctors are where they are today. How they succeeded in accomplishing their life goals. “

 If you can dream it, you can do it


Book Review : Jingle Hell

The dreams are only the beginning

Book name : Jingle Hell

Author : Holly Jane

Rating : 5 / 5

Genre : Horror

About the Author

Holly Jane lives in the UK. She’s interested in anything to do with books and has experience in writing, reading, editing and design.

Holly also enjoys playing flute and piano in her spare time – much to the dismay of her too-intelligent-for-her-own-good Border Collie, Bess.

In the future Holly hopes to work in the Publishing industry and is trying to get a feel for the self-publishing process in preparation for her (hopefully) future career.

Review by Shahnila Hassan

Usually I don’t watch horror movies but my husband insisted me to watch with him but I won’t. Well I’m pondering how can I like this horrible story. Trust me I was lost in the story.

Certainly I’d prefer everyone to read it once. 

This is the story about a girl and her weird dreams. How come you know about the dreams well she wrote a diary and all the secrets kept in it. Afterwards a different incidents happened and lastly police got a victim along with evidence.

This time a Christmas becomes a horrible day. With A horrible Christmas song. A horrible atmosphere and a suspected family.

All you can read in a book by Holly jane

To know more about the book for instance….

Who is the victim?

What is the connection of dream with a diary?

What are those evidence that helps to arrest the victim?

And much more in a complete mysterious book “Jingle Hell

Blurb ;

Jingle Hell, 
Jingle Hell, 
Jingle all the way. 
Oh what fun, 
It is to hide; 
To slaughter and to slay… 


Excited to relax after a stressful year of school, Jingle enters the Christmas holidays happy and carefree, determined to enjoy herself. 

Yet fate has other plans. 

A mysterious Mass-Murderer known only as ‘The Christmas Killer’ is targeting her town, terrifying the neighbourhood. At night, Jingle has dreams in which she witnesses the murders and is horrified to discover in the morning that her dreams are true. Paranoid that people will accuse her of being the Murderer and unwilling to trust those close to her, she confides her fears about the Christmas Killer and her suspicions regarding their identity in her diary. 

So this is a short horror story. Eventually every page of diary will Engage you in its own way.

Book Review : The chapter Black ‘ scandalous secret ofthe scars

Author : Bushra Rahmani

Rating : 3.5 / 5

Book review by Shahnila Hassan

The Chapter black is a pathetic story. There are a lot of secrets in it. I like the idea of story about an acid survivor. It is completely different story. I want to share some my opinions about this.

Acid survivor’ The discussion is not ample. Who survived this disaster life couldn’t be lively anymore. I appreciate the writer who take a time to write for helpless people.

The life of acid survivor or her family would be destroyed completely. At least no one have a right to destroyed other’s physical appearance. This illiteracy should be stopped. Everyone should be contemplate about this serious act.

Well this story goes around a girl named Alishba who is a survivor of acid attack. She lost her parents and lived with her younger sister. After a death of her parents they faced the tough time from his cruel uncle Zafar. Actually he want to captured the property of Alishba.

Is he successful in his villainous mission? How Alishba’s life ended with a tragic incident?

Who is a helper or who isn’t? What is the end of the acid survivors?

This story is about compelled people, tragedies, Cruelties, love, friendship, revenge, ups and down, well a complete interesting story.
To read a complete story check the book The Chapter black in Amazon.com

 > Some points I’d like to appreciate:

· The Chapter black is a perfect title.

· I don’t like the cover much because of its darkness it could be more clear.

but love the writing style of Bushra Rehamani. She describes the story in very prominent vision. Certainly I’d love to read more books of her. She knows how to sketch the story plot. Some characters i don’t like but they are a part of story. Somehow this is perfect moral story for teenager. We shall allow our intuition to guide us.

The story is good but at some moment i feel that the story is dragging now. The scenarios are very well described in detail.

Usually I’m not impressed by the idea of prolong stories because it could be boring at some points. But overall I enjoyed the book and lost in the characters while reading it.

Book Review : Bobby and the Monster


Review by Shahnila Hassan

Wonderful book.

What a loving pictures and illustrations. It is best for children.

I’ll give 5 stars for his innocence.

This is indeed an incredible a bedtime story .

Blurb ;

One evening Bobby confessed that he is afraid to sleep in his bed. It is a quite often situation for little kids. Their vivid imagination creates a genuine fear about what is waiting in the darkness of the room. Bobby’s Mom treats with understanding to his feelings and peculiarly calms him. She makes up a story that makes her son smile and ready to sleep. 

What is this story about? Just start to read now, and you’ll know it.


This cute little story will entertain children and make a good time with parents before sleep. 


About Author :

Marie Blair is a children books writer. She is very passionate about her work which we can see after reading her books. She has two children and her favorite thing is to do with them is reading.

Here is the link of Goodreads where you can find the book and author:

http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42979698-bobby-and-the-monsters

I think you might like this book – “Bobby and the Monsters: (Picture book for kids age 2-6 years old, Rhyming book for kids age 2-6 years old, nice story to help children to overcome their fears and start to sleep in own bed)” by Marie Blair, Viktoriia Mykhalevych.


Book Review : The Kooky kids’ club

Author : Robbie yates

Rating : 3 / 5

Genre : Fantasy

Book review by Shahnila Hassan

I love the theme of book. Maxine is a unique and different girl who thought about different ideas all the time.

And the day came when she got an invitation from a mysterious group.

A group of unique children who have a different ability. And the name of the group is “The Kooky kids’ club”

This group has been made to become more talented . All members shared what they can do their best. Moreover they are curious to know about themselves. They’re trying to help each other getting immersed in different activities.

They shared their talents and teaches them how to be a perfectionist.

Suddenly a twist of Miss. Thompson happened.

A very well known teacher Miss. Thompson disappeared and nobody knows the reason.

Similarly the members of Kooky kids’ club decided to Investigate and sort out the mystery of Mrs.Thompson.

How did they find about their teacher? What are more mysteries awaiting for them?

Who indulged in this mission?

Will Miss Thompson gets the fair decision?

Indeed it is a wonderful story. Robbie yates again did a very great job. He always comes with a bright ideas for kids.


QOTD ; Have you ever made a group when you were a kid?

Do you like to solve mysteries?


Join The Kooky kids’ club and share some quirky stuff about yourself.


 Book Blurb :

Maxine is smart, quirky, and a bit of a misfit. One day, she receives a mysterious invitation to a meeting of the “Kooky Kids’ Club.”

Things are looking bright. It’s nice to finally have a real group of friends. Then Maxine’s teacher disappears.

Maxine doesn’t know what happened to her beloved teacher, or how she can help. But if anybody has the smarts to help Miss Thompson, it’s Maxine and the Kooky Kids’ Club…

This quirky chapter book is for the best kind of kids—the ones who are a little bit kooky!


Author Bio

Robbie Yates is an author from Melbourne, Australia. He likes cocoa, cheeky poetry, and eating all of the red jellybeans before anybody else can get to them.

In his free time, Robbie likes to read ridiculous and wacky kids’ fiction. He also likes practical jokes and terrible puns.

Thank you Shalini and Digital reads blog tours for inviting me to become a member of Kooky kids’ club

Author Social Media Links

Amazon Author Central page: https://www.amazon.com/Robbie-Yates/e/B07DZ8FKDM

Author’s Website: http://www.robbieyates.com/

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